With
today's busy lifestyles, each day presents us with a new challenge to
juggle our commitments, responsibilities, chores, etc. We're torn in
so many different directions at once, forced to prioritize and
re-prioritize at a moment's notice, adjusting our hectic schedules to
accommodate what is most urgent.
This busy-ness is compounded
(mentally at least) by the premium that society has placed on being able
to multi-task. We all know people (or perhaps are the people)
that broadcast how busy they are, proudly wearing and bearing this
Herculean burden like a scout's merit badge for all to see. Those
people with the wireless headsets on their cell phones loudly proclaiming
in the supermarket, "You'll just have to hold. I have another call
coming in." definitely leave an impression on us, and suffice it
to say that this impression isn't one of profound abject
admiration.
It isn't very likely that anyone is
going to be impressed by how busy we are. Everyone is busy
these days, but some manage their tasks more efficiently. Efficiency
is the byproduct of maintaining our focus.
focus —
... a center of activity, attraction, or attention (Webster's
New Collegiate Dictionary)
To
maintain our focus, we must:
This last requirement may be somewhat
surprising at first. Usually we think of distractions as the
external variety such as an inopportune phone call, or an unexpected
visitor. But equally, if not more, distracting is the inner dialog
saying, "I really should be somewhere else, or working on something
else". The effects of this should-be-working-on-something-else
syndrome is counter-productive at best and can be almost paralyzing if we
allow it.
Exploring and extrapolating this
train of thought, it would be easy to convince ourselves that we were never
where we should be or never working on what we should. This
inner distraction dilutes our attention and focus and diminishes our
efficiency.
And it isn't just work that
conjures up this feeling of being in the wrong place. It is also
counterproductive to be unable to rest, relax, or sleep without feeling
guilty. Just because you could be doing something more
productive every hour of every day, doesn't mean that you should
be.
Another potential pitfall in the path
to focusing is procrastination (Please refer to Puzzling
Procrastination in
the article archives of this site). If what we're working on really
is a priority for us, we should want to work toward its
completion.
If
evaluating or setting priorities or maintaining your focus is an area of
concern for you, you've already taken the first step. Maintain your
momentum. Feel good in your accomplishments. Understand that
continued focus will bring you ever closer to your ultimate potential.