In
many ways, when we're born it's very similar to a new car rolling off the
assembly line. In this article, I hope to explore some of these
similarities in a way that may help you look at yourself and your
circumstances a little
differently.
When that shiny new vehicle rolls off
the assembly line, it is as close to perfect and flawless as it will ever
be. Even cars that are adjacent in the production line have subtle
differences, something to distinguish itself from its predecessor and the
one to follow it. Perhaps the difference is largely cosmetic. This is much the same as with identical twins, where so
much is alike that any small difference becomes the separating factor.
When two cars come off the assembly line in sequence, they may perhaps
stay together for a while. They may spend some time together before
transport, and then again at the dealership, but eventually, they will
leave the confines of the dealer's lot and follow their own unique and
yet-to-be-determined paths.
Not all of us come
"equipped" the same, i.e., have the same potential. Some
of us are VWs, some are Rolls-Royces, some are Corvettes, and some
are mini-vans. But even those of us that have inherently similar equipment
have widely diverse ranges of potential purpose and expression.
For example, all SUVs begin their
existence with a multitude of possibilities.
They may end up pulling a horse trailer on a ranch, as a
Search-and-Rescue vehicle, as a
pseudo-limousine for a government official, or used for transporting youth
soccer teams or illegal drugs. While each came off the assembly line with
this entire range of possibilities (and almost limitless others), the
people that they are associated with and the particular circumstances and
environment that they are exposed to helps to determine their ultimate
function and purpose.
If we never venture out, we don't risk an accident or
getting a dent in the door at the parking lot. But left unused, eventual deterioration is the only
assured consequence. Our talents and strengths are not a finite resource,
but rather something we need to use frequently as we pursue and move
closer to our goals. Taking no action at all may be the one of the
riskiest choices we can make. Absence of risk doesn't assure security.
And what about the relatively unique
combination of "options" that we each have? We have them at our disposal to
use as appropriate to make
things go more smoothly and efficiently, and get us to our desired destination.
Really, though, many of us have options that we never use or take
advantage of. All cars come with shock absorbers because we know that we
will eventually encounter some bumpy roads; with windshield wipers because
not all days will be sunny and clear; with lights because sometimes we
must venture out into the darkness to get where we really want to go. If we
never risked going out when the weather and conditions were not absolutely
perfect,
we would be as stagnant and non-productive as if we were perpetually
parked in a dark garage, all our capabilities and options unused, our paths unexplored, and
our destinations perhaps dreamt about but never actually realized.
It is most unfortunate when we don't
use all the options at our disposal. Why not use those fog lamps to help
us to see more clearly? Why not use that compass to guide us and keep us
from getting lost? Why sit helplessly with a flat tire when we have a jack
and a spare tire in the trunk?
Astrology can be the vehicle to help us
become more aware of who we are and better utilize the options and tools we possess.
We could continue
to wait until the perfect circumstances arrive, or we can take immediate action
and venture forward, recognizing that by using our talents and skills
to the fullest we can get moving along the road to our chosen destination.