It's amazing how
often when we need information, motivation, or stimulation to do something
just the perfect book virtually falls into our laps.
My
wife and I recently began doing some home renovation and had become
increasingly aware of (and overwhelmed by) the amount of "stuff"
we had accumulated over the years. Closets, cabinets, bookshelves,
and the storage shed were all jam-packed and overflowing with so much
stuff that we had trouble finding things that we knew were in there somewhere.
Also,
during the process of moving into my new office, even though it was just a
couple of offices away from my old one, I was forced to physically touch
years worth of accumulation of "stuff".
Much
of this "stuff" fell into the category prefixed by the
delusional, "Someday when I have time I'll..."
Then, during a recent visit to Chicago my wife and I
were walking a short distance to our hotel after having a wonderful
Italian dinner. The city was experiencing its first snow flurries of
the season and it was quite cold (for desert-dwellers anyway). We
dashed into a bookstore primarily to get warm for the home-stretch walk to
the hotel.
While we were browsing and warming up we came
across a book, "Clear Your Clutter with Feng Shui"
by Karen Kingston. Regardless of whether you subscribe to the principles of Feng
Shui, the book offers a refreshing viewpoint of how to
get into a frame of mind that allows us to part with our masses of accumulated
clutter.
Well, this book proved to be the
spark that we were seeking. Now, rather than half-heartedly
shuffling "stuff" from one storage area to another, we began
moving it directly to the used book store, donating it to local
charities, passing it on to friends that could put it to use, or
dumping it into the garbage.
The feeling as you get rid of things that have worn out their usefulness is nothing short
of invigorating. And by clearing out objects that are taking up space in
our homes and offices, we also free up cluttered space inside our
heads.
Just seeing those looming and
ever-growing piles of papers, books, and magazines is enough to make us
feel tired, overwhelmed, and as though we're suffocating; almost
sacrificing ourselves, our creativity, and our peace of mind to the
cruel gods of clutter.
But once we take the first steps
toward jettisoning these things that no longer have any place in our
lives, we open up brand new possibilities for ourselves. It's as
though we now have an opportunity to breathe more freely and begin to feel
renewed and unencumbered with fewer distractions.
I often encourage
clients to let go of things that have lost the significance in their lives
in order to make room for new people, things, and opportunities. Our clutter-clearing experience has reemphasized the importance of being
vigilant in this pursuit. By letting go, we are symbolically opening
our arms and minds to new growth.